yo~ hey hi howre you? my name's Benda Tendel im a misunderstood genius. pfft lol nah not really.im incredibly lame and most of the time i dont know what to do with myself.hah
We also need to stop saying she’s “free”. She isn’t. She still has 10yrs probation, mandatory community service hours, and requirements for maintaining a job in order to remain unincarcerated. She’s been released from a physical prison only to enter the open air prison so many people in the carceral state are confined to.
This shouldn’t be over. She should be fully pardoned. It’s unconscionable that they can choose to incarcerate her again for any minor infractions they deem in violation of her probation. This release shouldn’t be conditional, and right now it is.
Look at God! LOOK AT THE PEOPLE! Y’all brought Cyntoia Brown home. There’s still so much work to do, but I’m proud af of every single one of you that took action, no matter how big or small. #allpowertothepeople
It’s so healing to wake up in a silent house and silently make your own coffee or tea and enjoy the beautifully intricate fullness of the morning silence while remaining calm and collected and unbothered by all outer and inner noise and it’s so low-key elevating and pacifying to rejoice in the silent atmosphere of your own house and just silently block the rest of the world…it’s a slice of heaven
Your purpose in life is not to love yourself but to love being yourself.
If you goal is to love yourself, then your focus is directed inward toward yourself, and you end up constantly watching yourself from the outside, disconnected, trying to summon the “correct” feelings towards yourself or fashion yourself into something you can approve of.
If your goal is to love being yourself, then your focus is directed outward towards life, on living and making decisions based on what brings you pleasure and fulfillment.
Be the subject, not the object. It doesn’t matter what you think of yourself. You are experiencing life. Life is not experiencing you.
as we’re now approaching 20biteen heres a message to all the lovely bi folks following me: ❤️💜💙💘💋💗💞💖💞💗💞💕💋💓❤️💜💙💗💓💗💕💘❤️💜💙💓💟💕🖤❤️💜💙💟💞💖❤️💋💋💞💞❣️💖❤️💞💞💖💞❤️💜💙💞💋💞💖💝💋💓❤️💘❤️❤️💋💞💓❤️💜💙💞❣️🖤💗❤️❤️💕💝💟💟💞❤️💜💙💕❤️💜💙🖤💓💞💖💝❤️💜💙💟💘❤️💞❤️💜💙💗💝💕💕💘❤️💕❤️💜💙💝💓🖤💕💗💝💟💖❤️💜💙💘💋❣️💟💞❤️💜💙💞💙💖💗💖💞❤️💜💙💝💖💕💝💟❣️💞💗💞💋❤️💜💙❣️💟💘❣️💖💓💖❤️💜💙❤️💘💞💝💖💕💞💗❤️💞💓💗💞❣️💗💓💞💟💝❤️💓💗💖❣️❤️💜💙❤️💋💙💘💕💞💞💓❤️💜💙❤️💝💝💞🖤❤️💜💙💗💕💗❤️❤️💜💙💟💜❣️💗💘